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post #16 of 20 (permalink) Old 03-16-2017, 08:14 PM
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Re: I'm not sure what to feel or do as of the moment or at all. What shall i do ?

LOL! That makes no sense. HE is dependent on you for cash. Let this guy go. You lose NOTHING by divorcing him.

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post #17 of 20 (permalink) Old 03-18-2017, 03:25 PM
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Re: I'm not sure what to feel or do as of the moment or at all. What shall i do ?

What country are you from? Is there a reason you can't just st divorce and be done with it?

The only other option I can think of is have an open relationship with boyfriends of your own

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Re: I'm not sure what to feel or do as of the moment or at all. What shall i do ?

Originally Posted by alxndr24 View Post
I'm a working adult, and having a salary that can sustain me till end month.

I'm financially dependent on him because he sometimes uses my cash first before returning it days later, because his job is weekly salary based.
I'd be curious to know what it's like to be married to someone who acts like a dumbass 16 year old IDIOT teenage kid who thinks life revolves around mushrooms and 'greens' and getting high and drinking like an irresponsible moron and who thinks it's 'cool' to bash you because you're an adult whose evolved past this ignorant stage in life because you don't want to indulge with him. What the hell must it be like to be with such a LOSER that he can't even manage his money like a GROWNUP and instead has to GLOM onto all your money in order to make it through the week? And lastly, what must it be like to be with such a piece of garbage that you're afraid to have sex with him because he's been banging any female stupid enough to waste her time with this ignorant fool, and God KNOWS what he's picked up because of it?

What would the payoff be for anyone to be with such a complete waste of life that they'd be willing to sell their soul down the river just to stay with someone this low down the food chain?

I assume you know the answer to this question OP, because you're living that dream right now.
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Re: I'm not sure what to feel or do as of the moment or at all. What shall i do ?

How old are you?
You are a working adult.
Why cant you see a lawyer, claim alimony and leave his ass?
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post #20 of 20 (permalink) Old 03-20-2017, 10:23 AM
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Re: I'm not sure what to feel or do as of the moment or at all. What shall i do ?


You gave enough chances and he ended up failing you every single time...the time for chances are over, it time to move on....he has disrespected you and your marriage...its now time to work on yourself and your life with out him....its time for you to regain your self respect.
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