Re: "Let Go if You love Something"
Do NOT have kids with her. Do not rely on her for birth control. Use condoms and spermicide EVERY TIME. If she does not want that, don't have sex with her. Once you have kids, a nice guy like you will find it impossible to consider divorce.
Get No More Mr. Nice Guy TODAY. Start doing the breaking free exercises today. When you are well into implementing them, get and read Hold Onto Your N.U.T.S.
You are passive and co-dependent. Life tends to beat up people like that, no matter how nice you are to everyone around you. In fact, BECAUSE you are too nice to everyone around you.
You will find, to your surprise, that people treat you better when you behave more selfishly. It is NOT the case that the nicer you are to other people, the nicer they are back to you. Being polite only helps up to a point. Beyond that point, almost all people lose respect for you and some of them will take advantage of your weakness. It is lose lose for you. The people who like you and don't take advantage of you will sympathize but they won't do anything to make up for the losses you endure at the hands of those who abuse you.
Women do not find doormats attractive. Women have to respect a man to find him attractive. Women will never respect a man who allows her to hit him. Or walk all over him. If you want a better type of woman in your next relationship, you need to start standing up for yourself more. Might as well practice on your current wife.
When you can see it coming, duck!
Last edited by Holdingontoit; 03-22-2017 at 05:53 PM.