12-29-2011, 06:23 PM
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Henniker, the only one on Earth
| | Re: My idiot husband ruined my trip
My H used to do that on a daily basis...calling every day and if I didn't answer because I was at the grocery store or the gym or in the shower or on the phone, it was the same sort of message. Then accusations of me being unfaithful set in.
He was the jealous sort. It turned out he had his own secrets top keep and so assumed I MUST have mine. He wanted to make himself feel better, justified about what he was doing.
Someone told me once if there is one finger pointing at you, the rest of his fingers are pointing at him. Something to take into consideration.
Anyway, it stinks to be mistrusted when you haven't done anything at all to gain the mistrust.