Join Date: Feb 2016
Location: North Coast Nationalist-burg, U.S.A.
Re: My wife is thinking about a separation
Sorry, this is a tough place that you are in. Sounds like she is done with you. This other lady just cemented her poor opinion of you and your marriage. Don't blame her. Both ladies are leaning on each other for emotional support.
On her separation plans:
Is she going to get a place closer to her new job? This would make sense.
This would kill two birds-
1) Bird #1, Eliminate her long flapping flight [both ways]. This drive is madness. You should have offered to move the family somewhere closer. You got the mortgage approval. Can you get a house closer for her...farther for you? You need to downsize...big time.
2) Bird #2, Eliminate her rooster at home. That is you....No Clock-a-Doodle for you.
Is she going to share the place with her new carpool friend?
This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.
The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
Last edited by SunCMars; 03-31-2017 at 08:37 AM.