Re: I Need Help.... How Can I Get My Husband To Leave
Not sure I understand your logic. You're not happy, so he should leave... Where exactly would you like him to go for a few weeks? You can't rent an apartment easily for a few weeks. A hotel will be quite expensive, and as you've mentioned, money is an issue.
If you're not happy, it seems that you should be the one to leave, with or without the kids. You can ask him to leave, but he has just as much right to be there as you do. Of course, the question of how he'll handle child are might come up...
Perhaps you could brainstorm some options. Like, you two rent a small apartment, and take turns living there, with the other parent staying in the home. But it may come down to you being willing to enforce some unpleasant boundaries. It will be your call if you're willing to do that.
You may want to talk to a lawyer about your options as well. For example, can you terminate your lease with your father, move everyone out for just a few days, then YOU sign a lease with your father again without your husband. This isn't likely to improve your relationship with your husband, though.
What HAVE you done to try to fix things while you're both in the house? While counseling may be cheap and there's no guarantees it will work, it's probably cheaper than maintaining two households, and has a better success rate than just hoping the problems go away on their own.
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