02-08-2012, 11:30 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | What if they let you go...without even a discussion
I have been married 5 years- to someone 22 years older than I. We have two toddler children
together. We always lived a very high lifestyle - never shared finances...I never asked. We had successful
Businesses together in the beginning - and without my knowledge the day came we were in a financial nightmare.
He had asked me to put everything in my Madien name so I did- now two ccs maxed, loss of a million dollar home, cars, schools for our kids etc.. We are living
In a rent house- which is totally fine by me....it was never about the money- but something occurred two years ago and we stopped talking, laughing and living. I guess I never
Questioned him in the finance area because I truly always knew he'd come thru- a wonderful father..a dotting husband....with no friendship, and a controlling nature -
Now traveling with work - I finally got the courage to tell him I'm unhappy and sick of being sad- today! Without even a discussion
He tells me no relationship can take the beating we've endured- it's over. I'm a little confused as to is this a plot for attention or is this for real? A divorce without discussion...
I'm by no means perfect but feel like I've been living in a facade that I allowed. I'm ready to be in the real world and he dismisses me so quickly and our children.
I am his third wife- the two previous ended with affairs.. Who can walk away that easily? Is it me or is this completely irrational. My heart is broken as he won't even fight for me- I've stuck by him through some sick hard times-....and am tired of dying and ready to live BUT at least shed a tear for me. I am sad.
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