02-12-2012, 08:06 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | 15yrs of marriage and I not for sure what to do.
Hi. I am new to the site and I am looking for advice. My wife and I will be married for 15 years in a few months and I am not for sure what I need to do.
What do you do when you are no longer physically attracted to your wife? Over the last 2 years, I started to lose quite a bit of weight and my wife has just given up with the weight loss. I am not happy in the relationship and my wife is extremely insecure about her and accuses me of flirting with every girl out there. Before any post anything about her cheating, I donít believe that is a concern. Just this last weekend I told her that we needed to take a break for the week to see if we can figure things out. She left this last weekend and stayed with her parents and I am still sitting here at the house. I am torn right now because I am on the verge of calling it over. We have been through this over the last few years quite a few times and it seems like things get better for a week or a month then I slump right back into being unhappy.
I donít know if I did the right thing by asking her to go to her parents for the week so she had time to think about our last conversation about me being so unhappy. I figured that it would be unfair for me to expect an answer on what we should do with only one evening to think about it since I have been thinking about this for 6 months. I am not for sure what to do, but I am really considering divorce even though I really donít want that (I think?).
Thanks for any advice you can give me.