02-13-2012, 06:52 AM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | Married 6 years, now there's no connection
I'm figuring the result should be divorce, but here's what's going on:
In March, we'll have been married 6 years. been together about 8 years. 2 kids, her pre-teen son from previous marriage and our 3 year old. We live in a city, it's nice but I feel claustraphobic. I would like to move to a smaller town, and she has no interest. My relationship with her son is strained, and to be honest I just don't care. I would do anything for my son, though she makes comments that I ignore him at times.
We rarely make love or are intimate, though I certainly try. She constantly pushes me away. I know a big portion of this has to do with my relationship with her son.
I have asked several times for us to meet with mediator, but she won't agree.
I am from a divorced family, and we have both already been thru 1 divorce. I don't want to put my son thru that, but not sure what else to do. We have been to counseling before, however it sounds like she needs to make some changes more than me. Now neither of us is interested in going back.
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Last edited by hrphoto73; 02-13-2012 at 06:57 AM.