There are several things in this post that makes me suspecious that this is not real:
I am not aware of herpes that does not respond to at lest one or a combination of antiviral agents.
Having frequent severe outbreaks would indicate that she is severly immune compromised and that would show in other ways
Exactly, my point! There seems to be more going on there. I have been trying to get her to take responsibility for her medical problem and get the HELP she needs to figure out what is going on! She does not include me. She gets defensive, but she doesn’t address it seriously enough. I mostly stay out of it, but I haven’t let it go. For example, we first discussed the possibility of getting some immunology diagnosis done about 8 years ago. She has yet to see an immunologist! She wouldn’t have started the Famvir if I hadn’t pressured her to get a prescription. How many times do you have to try Acyclovir and Valtrex over and over and for them not to work until you acknowledge they don’t work?
She has had to have c sections for all three births if she has incurable genital herpes, having 3 babies under tgese circumstances seems unusual
Incredibly, no c-sections. Yes, this was a very serious concern for us. VERY fortunately for us, she generally did not have any serious outbreaks while she was pregnant, and mostly while she was nursing. She did have other issues, but the virus seemed to go into remission during these times. We discussed possible hormone correlation to the virus. Yet she has made no attempt for diagnosis for that either. As soon as the last child was being weaned, I made it very clear to her she needed to make sure that she took care of the virus issue. I felt she ignored me. Her outbreaks started again in June and have been ongoing more or less since then.
The OP wants to argue, and says things to excite outrage.
Whatever, that is completely callous.
Can't keep his story strait - he is happily married, not happily married contemplating divorce.
Whatever. My wife is a good woman. She is not a great spouse. We generally get along, but that does not mean we are happily married. I never said we were happily married.
Looking for a clean woman to infect. Now if that does not excite outrage...
I HAVE NEVER SAID NOR IMPLIED I WAS LOOKING FOR A CLEAN WOMAN. And certainly not one to infect! Are you trying to be a jerk?! If so, I’d rather you just go away and not post.
He has not been tested which is a ridiculous claim.
I’ve never said I have not been tested. Blood tests show that I have HSV-1 antibodies, but those blood tests will show positive for HSV-1 antibodies for 80% of the population. I have had no skin samples to test because I have no outbreaks or symptoms visible to the eye.
This is probably the same person who has been posting other fantastic tales only to engage in arguments.
No you are dead wrong, and I would rather that you just go away and not post on my thread anymore.