03-26-2012, 06:01 AM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | Re: How Do I Convince Him To Leave?
You should talk to a lawyer about your options. You may be able to find one that offers free initial consultations if you shop around enough, and you may be able to find options for low income situations.
But why should he move out if you're the one that's unhappy? If he was the one posting here, everyone would be advising him to stay. Your best best is to start divorce proceedings, if that's where you need this to go. Of course, at the end of that process, BOTH of you will likely need a new place to live...
The financial situation isn't going to magically get better either. You can't expect him to live with relatives forever, so his income will be supporting two households now. And with him having to give up say, half his income, to you, his incentive to earn more money will go way down. And if bills go unpaid for awhile when he's living with his relatives, HE won't be affected if the power goes off for a few weeks.
Sorry to paint such a bleak picture, but I think you need to work towards being as self-sufficient as possible before forcing the issue. Once you're separated/divorced, I suspect you can count on him less than you do now, so you need to be realistic about what to expect.
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