04-13-2012, 12:58 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | Re: I asked her for a divorce
Originally Posted by Lon
She may be over you so quick, but more likely she is doing a "180" on you showing you that she is strong and will be just fine without you, that she doesn't need you and was in the marriage because she wanted to be, not because she wants you to think she was dependent on you. So yeah, you are getting what you are asking for, maybe it is genuine or maybe she is really hurting and just putting on a good show for you. But when you ask for a divorce its because you have decided that you can't be the spouse your partner needs or that you can't be the person you want to be with that spouse in your life. Give it time, do some self reflecting, begin to heal yourself and don't rush into anything new now - partake in your hobbies and life will resolve itself for you if you remain patient.
Be careful with what you ask for you just might get it
take care of your self and as others have mentioned develop new or revive old hobbies and focus on yourself
who knows where this will end up as divorce is a long road and technically you fired the first salvo she is answering back so to speak maybe consider going to mc or ic