04-16-2012, 12:57 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: On the cusp of something great!
| | Re: SO Tired...
If you've gone through years of MC and are still miserable you need to leave. If he ALWAYS has to be right, if you always have to back down...it's because he's a control freak and, yes, the manipulation you feel is REAL.
Why have you "asked" him for a divorce? Do you live in a no-fault state? If so, he doesn't have to ever AGREE to the divorce...it will happen anyway.
Forget the MC; get yourself into IC. Get yourself a good attorney. Come here for support as frequently as you need. We'll be rooting for you!