Re: To leave or not to leave
you seem to have to major problems, your husband controlling and you not being happy in that city (been there) i really don't think its the city or the state whatever,,,it's your husband!! you don't seem happy therefore everything you see it negatively. i tell you this cus I'm living it! and I realized that if my husband were diferent I could be happy anywhere in the world with him! just like I thought it would be when we were dating and he was promising to make me happy!!! mine is very controlling and short tempered which makes me very unhappy and we live in Houston by ourselves, with no family and just a few friends ...it can be very overwhelming, but your main priority is your family and mainly your daughter....as the years went by, I came to realize I had no promising future where my original hometown is and it was not much better for my son either, I visit all the time and i enjoy it but my we have better jobs over here and we're able to provide our son a better education. my poin is, once you talk to him about his controlling and what you don't like and what he doesn't like, etc. etc. you'll be able to talk about the moving and come to an agreement, then if he doesn't cooperate and is still making you unhappy, then leave!! cus it takes two to work out a marriage and there might be more important decisions along the way that you need to be on the same page and this is just the beggining!