04-23-2012, 11:56 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Wife brings it up, surprised I desperately want out
Our slow simmer came to a boil and my wife suggested perhaps we needed counseling. From the conversation she made it clear that she wasn't happy going on as things were. I'm not either, but I think we guys are willing to muddle along forever.
I was upset, but after a while a couple of things surprised me. First, I found that I have this little well of hard feelings that I have pushed under the rug for years. I'm not gong to bring it out now. Second, I found myself relieved at the thought of at least being separated. I mean really relieved.
We have kids, so this is a worry, but I just want to have this relationship thing behind me. Is this common?
First post, BTW