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Re: Serious confession made to me, what do I do??

Originally Posted by mompres View Post

She was 27 and he was 13. PERIOD!

She is a sexual abuser. Period!

Many are sexual abused in their lives sadly. That doesn't give them an excuse to repeat the behavior. Period!

Women abusers are no different than male abusers. Period!

The OP contacting the boy was way over the line. Period!

Leave her now and contact the authorities before this gets any worse than it is.
I agree with you under the condition that this was not a case of her being raped. Probably, given my reading of things, this is a case of her abusing the boy. My wife was abused as a young child, so I am well aware of the fallout on everybody involved. I have no tolerance for child abuse.

But the post above yours by The Guy has a point that we are presuming that this 13 yr old is an innocent child. There could be so much more to this story than what it appears on the surface. Just for a reference, here is an article about a recent event where a 13 yr old boy attempted to carjack two people. Shooting death of 13-Year-old ruled justifiable - ABC 33/40 - Birmingham News, Weather, Sports

Yes the authorities should now be called in. Yes it should be thoroughly investigated.

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