05-10-2012, 01:41 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Question for Ladies that want to leave...
So...quick bit of background...My wife and I have been on shaky ground for about 3 months now...been married 2 years...she left on vacation to visit family with our 2 children, one 10 one almost 6 months...was supposed to be 2 weeks turned into a month and a half after a fight...
She came home and it has been up and down for almost amonth now...There is no cheating involved...but she tells me she doesnt want to be with me and yesterday told me she doesnt love me anymore while i was at work...when i got home she acted as if nothing was wrong. i think she has postpartum, but will never say anything to her it has to come from a doctor. We have started to see a counselor, but he has been on vaction for 2 of the 3 weeks she has been home.
Anyway...onto my question. While she told me she doesnt love me anymore...at night (we still sleep in same bed) she will sometimes hold my hand or cuddle up on me. Last night she cuddled, kissed me and held my hand for almost the whole night...this is AFTER telling me she didnt love me anymore earlier in the day.
So what does it mean when a your wife is cuddling, holding hands or kissing you while sleeping? She knows its me there...im confused.
I can fill in more details if asked...
thank you for any responses in advance!!