msn messanger...cheating husband

heartbroken761407271 · 05-21-2012, 01:59 PM

I have been married 20yrs.2007 my husband was watching porn daily until i busted him.Now it seems thru his msn messanger he has three women friends request and some chic...athena ..made a naked fun room and asked him to join...yet i might ad settings are on private.Does this just appear ?HE says he did nothing and has no clue...please help...i need to get more proof before i leave him.
anyone have any ideas?

Toffer · 05-22-2012, 10:55 AM

There's lots that you can do. Is this through your PC? If so, you can install a keylogger.

Probably best if you did some reading in the coping with infidelity section here at TaM

Almostrecovered · 05-22-2012, 11:00 AM

it could be spammers, my yahoo account will get requests from that sort of crap too

This is me · 05-22-2012, 01:06 PM

There is always the option of MC. Throwing in the towel is the quick thought, but trying to work through it is always an option.

I wish you both well!

mommyofthree · 05-22-2012, 01:10 PM

I monitor my hubbys facebook account only because he HATES facebook and I need him to send things for me on farmville..lol.

I logged in one day to find a message from a name I could not pronounce saying to contact her,she needed him bad and was only in town for a fewdays and to delete the message after reading. I tryed to find the person but they did not exsist so im positive it was a spammer.

Also my hubby has no clue on how to use the computer or email.Actually he has no idea how to text or use his Iphone I got him either...lol!

Its not always how it seems.look at everything before running.

Cosmos · 05-22-2012, 01:18 PM

I don't use MSN all that often these days, but when I do log in I have requests from women (and I'm a woman myself) to add them as friends and view their sexy profiles. Playing devil's advocate here, perhaps your H has inadvertently added them, rather than delete them as I do?

SadSamIAm · 05-22-2012, 01:22 PM

I have had skanky women follow me on Twitter. I just go in and mark them as spam. Not familiar with MSN

Cosmos · 05-22-2012, 01:36 PM

OP, I've just logged into my MSN account and have half a dozen saucy emails / requests from women. Not only that, it looks like my account has been hacked as I have a host of message failure notices to friends, too.

Obviously you need to put your mind at rest about this, but please be aware that your H could be totally innocent, here.