Re: Separation Success Stories
I also have financial problems with hubby. I paid half of all the bills, when I work only 16 hrs per week. He doesn't help with our two boys. I know it would be a financially wise decision to divorce and ask for all my savings back, but hubby is not a mean guy. He doesn't deserve to be screwed in a divorce. I suspect he may be doing something illegal to waste all his money, but can't bare to face the truth. I almost prefer his addiction to be an affair vs. a gambling habit. My boys still see their dad as adequate, though he sees them very infrequently. I am convinced he is a better divorce dad, as he goes to great lengths to provide for his 18 year old daughter who lives with his ex-wife. I wish separation and divorce was a better option. If that happens, he will definitely be meaner to me, and right now he says he still loves me. I can't come out ahead either way.