04-12-2009, 01:05 AM
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Wherever the military takes us, United States
| | Cheapest/Fastest way to get a divorce?
Hello, everyone. If you read any of my other posts, you will see the situation I am in right now.
This is a huge struggle for me. I am torn between not wanting to break a vow I made to someone to stay with him until death do us part and then wanting to be happy and treated right. My husband is not a husband at all and not mature enough or ready for marriage. But that does not mean that I hate him and I still feel bad.
Is it selfish for me to want to be respected? To be happy to come home to someone I know loves and cares about me? To want to be told I am special and that someone cant live without me?
Sorry to vent. Anyway the point of this point is I am looking for some information. I am young and do not have that much money. I do not have a lawyer or an attorney. I have no clue how to go about obtaining a divorce. Im not a golddigger and Im not vengeful. The easiest thing in my eyes is if I had all the legal work and paperwork done and then I could just bring it to him and ask him to sign it and that be that.
So my question is....whats the simplest, easiest, fastest way to get a divorce? Also cheapest money-wise. About how much would it cost? Where do I need to go? As much details as possible would be helpful.
Also, how long will it take to be finalized?
Thank you all