Isuck

Wow, you may as well divorce now. You don't love her if she has to weigh a certain amount for you to. Love should be unconditional. I hate to say it but your age and lack of life experience really shows.

You need to either accept her how she is or move on. My wife of 12 years recently lost 100 lbs and is now dead in the middle of a mid life crisis. She's adamant about changing everything in her life, including getting rid of me. Don't wish for her to get in shape she was to want to do it herself and when she does it could backfire on you.