Re: Separated....but living in the same house and in the same bed....for the kids?
Read up on the 180 and start implementing it now
I would also suggest that she should tell her family at the end of your vacation and I recommend you stop the acting NOW.
She wants to seperate, let her deal with her family and the fallout
Also, if she wants to find out what life would be like without you, be sure to cancel all joint credit cards and remove half the money you have in any joint accounts and put it into accounts with just your name on it.
Also draw up a list of what her half of the monthly bills will be moving forward (mortage, insurance, car payment, cable bill, etc).
Why should you finance her single life?