So I had posted a thread alittle over a week ago... Married for 14 years(today) and my Wife is not in Love with me anymore....What to do?
We are currently on vacation in OBX and I thought things might get better. We have had lots of good conversation but there have been ups and downs and I'm not sure if she is putting on a show for her family that we are with.
I have come to the conclusion that when we get back home this saturday, I need to pack my things and move out to my parents house. I have told her that but I think she does not believe me and thinks that I am bluffing.
She thinks that because of finances and the kids, we should stay in the house together and be separated. I told her that I can't do this if she dosen't want to be with me because I need to start the healing process, and the only way to do this is to be away from her.
To make matters worse, we have been sleeping in the same bed here on vacation, and there has been some cuddling. It is a much smaller bed than out king we have at home. And on top of that my oldest son(14) was playing with her phone while we were her and stumbled onto all the texts that her and I have sent back and forth to each other. He now knows everything! This hit her really hard! It was a big dose of reality to her that what has been going on does not just effect her and I but everyone around us. I believe that if I leave on saturday, this will be very hard for her and I'm not sure that she can handle it.
I am so lost and confused and truly don't know what to do. I really don't want to leave, but I think it is the best for both of us!