07-19-2012, 04:27 AM
Join Date: Jul 2012
Originally Posted by mc1234
This is the time to tell her the truth, gently. You have not been meeting each other needs for a long time. If you are feeling this way now, marriage will not make it better. It takes a lot of work from both husbands and wives to keep a good marriage going. If you feel you can not listen to her now, what will it be like in 1, 2, 5+ years down the line? If you genuinely love each other, find out what each other needs are and try to meet them, give yourselves some time (6/12 mths) to rediscover each other. If not, be honest about this, then let each other find future happiness and love with some else, without any regrets.
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Well I've told her I'm unhappy but we're still not really talking about it, I can tell she's really hurt but I just find it so hard to talk about. Going try to talk to her about it tonight. Have huge knots in my stomach Posted via Mobile Device