07-18-2012, 09:01 AM
Join Date: Dec 2010
| | Re: Need some help - contemplating.
I have not been in this kind of situation. However, I do feel you owe it to your wife, kids yourself and this other woman to tell them the truth. I understand you don't want to cause your family pain, BUT the reality of it is, it more than likely will, and you will need to cross the bridge when you come to it. If you want your marriage, you will need to drop this other woman. If you want this other woman, tell your wife, its only fair and right.
"When people are truly sick and tired of being sick and tired, that's when they will make a change."