07-31-2012, 09:57 PM
Join Date: Jul 2012
| | Re: Its never really been "right"
First I want to thank you for your service...
I wanted to let you know that I understand your feeling as well... My husband and I were "together" for 2 months when I got pregnant (we'd known eachother longer but had lost contact for a few years so we didn't really KNOW eachother) we didn't get married until after we had another child and bought a house (4 1/2 years)... My H does not talk either... I am very outgoing, talk to people in the stores, etc. he doesn't like people, talk... nothing... This can be soooo frustrating sometimes not to mention lonely
There is a natural shift in relationships (I like him, I wanna choke him, he's the best!!, Did he REALLY just do that??, I love him) You may just be going through that natural shift??? I would still go for your degree regardless of what he does for now... You may end up chalking this one up as experience or stay together for 20 years like my H and I but either way, you'll have something to fall back on for you and your daughter... I wish I had advice for you that would help, I would do things different in my marriage if I was to go back but I still would've married him...