08-06-2012, 04:58 AM
Join Date: Aug 2012
| | What to do I am stuck in my marriage.
My wife does not want to take interest in anything. Not want to do anything. Before the marriage , I said to her for finding the job, but she did not took it seriously and has not done anything.
I said its okay, she will catch up later. After a year when I said many times to invest her time in some fruitful activities, she has not done anything. After a year, I stopped saying anything to her, I said she will take her own interest, but after three year of marriage, the daily activities of unfruitful things are really pinching me a lot and might be my suffocation is getting on highest level and there are many fights with her. If nothing is going to change then I would prefer to get separated as there would be no worth to continue such a disastorous life. I just want that she do her own things on time and invest her time in some fruitful activities , but she does not listen at all and invest her whole day in bull**** activities and later blames me that you don't support me, I go to office and when I come back I always ask how was your day and other activities, I am sick and tired of all these activities, I dont see any good future by seeing all these things. What should I do. Should I get separated or still there is hope that I can sustain, I do not want to do such thing, I never wanted to do but it is now over my head and everyday, I feel suffocating and helpless, I dont feel good about me.