08-07-2012, 09:17 AM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Re: Bored in my marriage
The only person who can fix your boredom is you. If you want to be more active, take up new hobbies, make new friends then *you* should start to do those things. Chances are that your husband is a bit bored too, and it may well be that he sees your new life he will be prompted to try new things as well.
Here's something you can try today. Ask yourself "if I were to wake up today and find myself suddenly single, what would I do?" Of course, some of your answers would involve taking steps to start dating new folks. [Set those aside for the moment.] But other things you could do immediately -- change your hairstyle, go for a bike ride, rearrange the furniture in the den, paint the bedroom, get rid of all the "mom jeans" and restock closet, etc.
Ultimately, you will need to engage your husband in a conversation as well. But, you need to know what you want before you can tell him and see what his response will be.