That is con-woman behavior. I'd suggest a divorce. Protect your assets and access to your children by getting a lawyer ASAP.
That's just a horrid thing to do! Fake kidnapping and theft? Ick. How long have you been married? Is she generally immature in other ways? How old is your wife?
"He who accepts evil without protesting against it is really cooperating with it." -Martin Luther King, Jr.
"“We first crush people to the earth, & then claim the right of trampling on them forever, because they are prostrate." -Lydia Maria Child.