Re: Please Help. Wife Wants A divorce I love her and do not
Not that your marriage is coming to an end, but you are doing what I think is appropriate. You gave it your best shot, till the bitter end. There will be ups and downs, I know I'm going through them as I'm probably just a few weeks ahead of your situation, but I know that I did everything possible near the end.
Maybe it WAS too late, but until we get that time machine setup, that's all I can do. And not repeat the mistakes in future relationships, for sure...
The last piece of advice I'll give you is that she will say a LOT of hurtful things .. and while you may need to listen to some of it to help you be a better person in the future, don't let it eat at you, dig at you. Because if you believe the crap she'll say about you, about how you'll be without her, it will be very hard to move on. Instead, work with your friends and family, people who will support you, and prepare for your new life. Once you know its a done deal -- start living your new life immediately.