Re: Why can't he just talk?
I hear what you are saying, it must be very difficult living under the same house. But I think you already know where you are heading and that’s a very good start. I definitely don't want to be this person (like you) and stay another 8 years. Initially is hard to make the first decision especially when you have children together.
My husband and I also lack the communication he won't speak to me I have to figure him out, and I am tired of this BS. But, mine never has done drugs or has abused alcohol; well I should say he has on two occasions, that’s what caused him two DUI's throughout his career.
Whatever you do, you'll be fine, your pain and suffer has taught you allot.