justean

ive just done the reverse with my hubby. told him i dont love him, and i dont. my situation did not just happen overnite. we have been together 13 years and have 2 children.
we have been in and out of love b 4. it can come back. it takes time and effort from both parties.
but have to be honest i really feel that this time its over.
it is very sad, but i dont go back for the childrens sake, you have to go back together for the both of you. actually my children do seem happier .
but its still like a grieving process you have to go through.

confusedtoo

Hi all,

In reading the situations here, my husband has said the same thing to me as well.... He says he does not love me "like that" anymore, but still cares about me.... I am still coming to terms with all this. We have a 2 year old to think of first.

I have posted here too (questioning my marriage) but now after some time has passed, I am feeling better. My husband is still living in the house, but separate bedrooms. We are very civil to eachother especially with son. We actually seem to do more stuff together now than before our marital issue came up. We have been married for 7 years+ and I am coming to terms with his unhappiness.

I still love my husband even though he has hurt me deeply. I am still willing to try even though some days , I dream about an easier life....without his baggage. My son makes me so happy so I guess I am trying to focus on that for now.

He is planning to move out next month, We are currently dealing with the business aspect, (ie house). He feels that he needs space to clear his head, but actually he is selfish. I have given him his space... He has to figure this stuff out on his own. I am sick of bailing him out. He is open to counseling now but I am not holding my breath about it. Life has actually been less stressful now that I can go and relax every night without worrying about him in the evenings. He wants to wait till he is settled at his new place before we get some advice....I am not sure how I feel somedays I suppose, but such is life.... people have to be happy and I am sick of trying to please him. good luck to all!