I think you are not being truthful because the story sounds so outlandish. No human being in the world would allow themselves to be called ugly, pay all the bills and be treated like a doormat. You can get out, you just won't. When he is at work, leave. You are the one with the cash anyway. He has nothing and he should learn to be alone. He is a c-nt, seriously. Don't let him hold you hostage and make you feel guilty. If my husband ever did that to me, it would be over in one minute.
Alexandria I typed such a long reply and It's gone! Lol buy anyway, you seem to be much stronger than Me. There really are people out here like me. One part of me thinks that he has lost his mind because he has changed so much over the years. He has changed religions, he hates America, and spends his entire day on the entire day on the internet voicing his hate and death wishes for Americans.
Of course I'm not telling the entire story, because there isn't enough room to write but i can't think of anything that i could have done that would make this situation ok.
I did mention to you all that i cheated on him it was not okay but i wanted to experience something other than working, paying the bills, and cleaning the house. I cheated because i NEEDED to have a relationship with the opposite sex.
I called his mother ugly. I know that this sounds a ***** childish buy I don't know how else to protect myself against his harsh words. He said that it hurt his feelings when i called his mother ugly because no one ever called her that before. I'm so confused bc how can he yell me that there is nothing wrong with being ugly but gets mad when i say it about his mom.
I am trying to move now. I can't call the police to have him removed because he hates.America and the police and said that if they come to remove him from his home that he will fight them.
Maybe he has lost his mind. That's another reason why I stay but i cannot be abused in the process. He physically hits.me I know its because he thinks I'm ugly. If i curse at him or yell he says I deserve to get beat and take it because he is defending himself against my words.
I do yell around the house at him and it's not right but I'm mad. He thinks that he is just going to lay around my house, make me pay the bills and i don't deserve a romantic life? Or relationship with a man?
That's so selfish. He doesn't need dates or anything with Me because he doesn't view me in that way but I'm a ***** if i go on a date with another man. you won't leave. Posted via Mobile Device