well first of all , it is such a nice things that u love her that much , have u ever showed her or tell her that ?
do u tell her that from time to time or everyday ??
i think you should tell her how much you love her ? and how much she mean for you ?!
and that she i everything in ur life
plus u can also discus for her telling that , what she really feel unconfortable with it while being with you ? and try to see if there is any thing that she wat to change ! andu can agree her
she might change her mind
well i think that i help you with the things i could
can u tell me what she really want to change in her life in order o push her to think to dosnt want to stay with
plus if u live a lie of routine , she might only feel bore from that life
let me know what u have done