Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Temporary Resident of Earth Lord Only Knows Where Next
Re: My wife wants a divorce
Since she is willing to see a counselor give that a chance. You should join her in counseling when she’s had a chance to see the therapist a few times. For the marriage to have a chance at recovery she must end the relationship with TOM. For good, no contact. Otherwise you will just be spinning your wheels. It is likely that while you have exhibited some bad behavior in the past the presence of an other man in her life only serves to further jade her view of you. If you feel you can recover the marriage and your trust in her then move forward with the counseling. If the cheating is too much for you to bare then tell her so and begin preparations to leave her.
Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.
"Some of the greatest lessons life has taught me came from my darkest days in it" -Amp