My husband has totally checked out of the relationship
Things haven't improved since my last post (Divorce because of a job). We do have an appointment set up with a marriage counselor, the day before our 4th anniversary (yipee).
However, I have this huge overwhelming fear that my husband has totally checked out of our marriage. I would be willing to bet that he has looked into lawyers, how he'll rearrange our house once I'm out, and the type of chick he'll want to date. He's already told me about all the great and wonderful things he'd like to do (coach little league, go on more vacations to see his college buddies) that he says I wouldn't let him do. Funny thing is, he's never mentioned any of these ideas in the 6 years I've known him.
I keep hope in the fact that he was the one to set up our counseling session. But I feel that the only reason he set up counseling is to "soften the blow" for me because he wants a divorce. My question is why even go to counseling when you're so checked out of our marriage? How is counseling even going to help when you're already gone?? Save the money!
I knew our marriage had issues. But I didn't realize they were so big they required us to get a divorce. Life just really sucks right now.