Re: Calling All Children of Loveless Marriages
Im not sure if I have the full story behind my mom and dad's marriage, they were only married a year, from what I was told, he would stay out all night drunk, and when he would come home, he would beat my mom. My mom left him when I was about 3-4 months old.
I got real sick when I was still a baby, my mom said Dr.'s didn't know if I would make it one day to the next, they called my dad and his response was "I have places to go and people to see." Hes not much of a father, he never showed for his visitation weekends, birthdays, fathers day...or any holiday for the matter. He remarried and done the same thing to his next wife, she suffered through it for 9 years before she finally left. Hes now on his 3rd marriage raising kids that aren't his, and only calls when he needs something, never calls to see how his grandchild is, or his ONLY daughter for that matter. The woman is married to now has him on a leash so tight he wont think of raising a hand to hit her, I guess he's the b*tch now...
My mom remarried to a man that raised me as his own, no questions asked, he tried to adopt me, but my biological (sperm donor) father wouldn't sign over his rights. I proudly call this man my Daddy. I promised my son that I wont let him grow up like I did, I wouldn't want anyone coming up and dealing with the pain that I dealt with as a child.