11-05-2009, 07:29 AM
Join Date: Oct 2009
| | Not sure, but it feels like the end is coming soon
Been married twenty years to high school sweetheart. We have two older teen age daughters, and a six year old daughter. We also suffered the loss of our oldest daughter about seven years ago she was twelve at the time.
The problem is I feel like I am insignificant around here, like I can try to make the bread, and fix things, but that is about it.
The wife is still going to bed every night with the six year old. She comes to bed sometime in the middle of the night, and every plan seems to be guided around the what our youngest daughter wants.
My wife also never plans ahead to get me xmas or birthday presents. I was 45 a month ago, and she got me a can of peanuts from walgreens, because she did not have any money saved. On my 40th birthday, she did not do anything. NO gift, no dinner, no cake no nothing.
Last night I got home from work, and things were tense around the house over dinner. I was ready to take us out if needed. My wife had already decided she was going to cook frozen pizzas for the kids, and she would go pickup some fast food for me. I told her I was upset that she worried more about what the kids wanted to eat, than anyone else. She simply stated you know this is not going to work out, and when we get are finances figured out we need to split up. I was trying to explain how it bothers me she is still sleeping with the daughter every night, at that moment the daughter yelled mom. My wife just walked out of the room in the middle of the conversation and helped my daughter. No more discussion. I went out and got something to eat.
I am not going to bring it up, just plan my exit. Seems to me she should want to discuss the troubles, but if she does not I guess she does not love me as much as I thought.