12-21-2009, 06:51 PM
Join Date: Feb 2009
| | Re: made a decision for me
LuvmyH, no he hasn't a plan yet, although he has looked at places, he still has not told him family after xmas is his plan.
Swedish, I have left the door open a bit, I did tell him maybe after some time has passed I will view things differently, I don't know if I will, but no one knows what the future holds, it's just so raw right now, and I can't imagine myself seeing him go off to work knowing she is there and going to office parties and she will be there, I think if he really has feelings for her then he is no good to me.....I think the fact that he knew how I felt about this subject and the type of person I am, he knew how I would react to this, he knows it is against my moral compass....maybe he got caught on purpose and wants me to be the one to kick him out....I am just questioning everything these days, once the trust is gone and the lies take hold you don't know what to believe, everything out of his mouth seems to have a question mark on it for me.
Time away from each other is what I need and so does he so he can figure out what he wants, then I won't have to worry where he goes, and with whom.....
time heals all i know this......