No more drama!

mom45 · 12-21-2009, 08:31 PM

I heard Mary J. Blidge song no more drama yesterday and it touch my heart like I have never heard the record before. Then I found my husbands cell phone and saw where he had been texting another women. My husband has been talking to other women for seven years and I let him get away with it. Somehow I can't let him get away with this this time. Every time I have caught him in the past he gives me some lame excuse and we go back to our married life and I excuse it, oh yea I would be mad until I forget about it and it happens again. He told me when I caught him this time that if I changed somethings then he wouldn't have to do it and that he talks to other women but nothing never happens. I don't believe that at all it has been happening too much and for seven years I have caught him doing this...I told myself this is crazy and I shouldn't be letting him do this to me. At this point I won't him to move out be he will not leave without me filing for divorce. I am going to have to do this...I've got to show him this time..this time I've got to do it cause I know that there is peace and none of the drama with the baby mama's and the other women. I asked my husband why he does this to me and he said because WE are not happy but I told him that he's not happy...and he needs to leave. I don't want to hold anyone that doesn't want to be here.

swedish · 12-22-2009, 02:41 PM

I agree if he's been doing this against your wishes for 7 years the only way he might have a chance of changing is if you do something drastic. Just be prepared to follow through or you will end up worse off than before.