swedish

Hi Russell,

Thanks for sharing the update of your situation. I was worried about you. I totally agree with you--you cannot give her the benefit of the doubt because she has broken your trust with this guy...I hope you are able to put your foot down and she stops taxiing him around. He is disrespecting you by having the nerve to accept favors from your wife at this point. I don't blame you at all for feeling anger towards him, but you are right, that won't solve anything. For your own sanity, your wife needs to tell him out of respect for your marriage, she can no longer have any sort of contact with him (outside of professional work related conversation if that's still necessary) Any friendship at this point is inappropriate because they already crossed a line. That's the price they both need to pay for crossing that line. You have been hurt enough already. My husband still works with the woman he cheated on me with and she still sticks her head in his office to say hi or borrow a diet coke and it really disturbs me that she has no respect for me or our marriage...but I guess to pursue a married man to begin with, I shouldn't expect much from her.
Thank you in advance for serving our country. It's certainly not a decision you can take lightly, and you have my respect for doing so.