Re: Steps to stop an affair
Don't you see. Her issues with you in the past are blame shifting now. I'm not saying she is over it, but you have changes and put that out of you now. There is nothing more you can do to change the past.
The problem now is tomorrow. Her continued contact with the OM is stopping the marriage from healing, and stopping her from healing.
Everytime she sees him, her brain in getting that affair jolt. That is stopping the healing, just like if you were still doing da small amount of drugs each morning then you would never be able to say you where clean and heal like you have.
You are right to push for her leaving, your marriage hasn't any hope for to heal until she does.
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