Re: Need some help with wife having a second affair
If you were to start over with someone totally new, you would you be more willing to accept that person's past?
I'm guessing yes.
Your wife "seems" to be trying hard. If you start counseling and she's eager, give it a go.
That forgiveness thing is completely separate. YOU have to get to the point where you can truely forgive her, you said you loved her right?
Of course horrible, but I doubt highly that the purpose for her misdeads were to hurt you allbe them careless.
Decide whether your in or out and then go FULL steam.
You can get "there" and either way, you will get past it as long as you want to.
DIE TO THE PAST EVERY MOMENT - TWC