08-17-2013, 08:46 PM
Join Date: Feb 2010
| | Re: Alright I did it!
Originally Posted by jenglenn
I found proof that NC was not kept. I asked him to leave and he is gone. Whew. I am not upset and I am rather shocked at how calm I am. I hope this calm lasts.
I think it's all a growing process. Once you have experienced the intense pain, the unbelievable hurt of being betrayed, you build a fence up around your emotions.
If I ever find out my wife is cheating again... It will not be emotional for me. I have done that, I have been there, I don't need to go there again. All the begging, pleading, asking for mercy will fall to my side.
Just leave, go, will be all that is said. I know I will feel nothing. Just leave.