requesting a Sat afternoon catch up. As the time passed, we were having fun reminising and decided to go for a drink. That one drink reduced my inhibitions and decided that we could spend the rest of the evening/night together. Nothing happened physically, but there was alot of talk about when we were together and he stated that I was the biggest regret of his life. Although I never told him to stop, he did mention that he respects my marriage and he "wasn't going to do this", but he kept talking in these tones. In the end, we said our goodbyes and he is home and I have resumed life
I disagree with what more users are telling you.
you should felt guilt, he played all the player's moves but it seems that he really stopped himself from doing more, I am almost sure that if he had gave you more alcohol and you have discussed a Little more of how great you are, how much he regrets things with you, and how dump he was for letting you go he could have took you to bed.
I am sure you have regreted it inmediatly but it would have been to late.
you should avoid any kind of exclusive meeting (just 2 persons) with someone from opposite when there is alcohol involved and much more if this person was someone you had intimacy in the past.
you don't know how many stories like yous I have read where the married person ends sleeping with the OM/OW under the circumstances you just described.
And please don't say, "not me, I will cheat on my husband because" because anyone
can cheat, and more if you are not aware of how easy is to cheat when you are not taking the mesures to prevent it (like boundaries who you obviously crossed that night).
you maybe went there without the intention of anything happening, but please read carefully, we have so many of stories of WS in this forum where they state the same "I didn't woke up that day thinking that I would cheat on my spouse it just happened"
please enforce your boundaries