H. admits, but won't tell me .....
H. and I were sep. yet, still staying over night with each other for about 4yrs. Couldn't seem to get along. Long story, but he came back to live with me, after I begged him to come home! He seemed really happy about it.
He told me w/in a few days after moving in, that he had had sex (also moved in with other woman), all the while, he was saying that he missed "us", ect.
HERE IS MY QT: HE WON'T TELL ME HOW LONG IT WAS GOING ON, OR ANY DETAILS. HE ADMITS TO MEETING HER AT WORK.
THIS ISN'T HIS ONLY AFFAIR. HE WAS SEEING ANOTHER WOMAN ABOUT A YR AGO, EVEN GONE TO VEGAS....ACROSS THE COUNTRY WITH HER!....I DIDN'T KNOW HE WAS AWAY! I KNEW SOMETHING WASN'T RIGHT, WHEN I'D CALL AND HE WOULDN'T ANSWER.
GET THIS............HE SAID THE FIRST WOMAN THE ONE HE WENT TO VEGAS WITH, AND HELPED HIM BUY A TRUCK (CO SIGNED), HE SLEPT IN HER BED, BUT HE DIDN'T HAVE SEX WITH HER. I DON'T BELIEVE IT!
SHOULDN'T HE LAY IT ALL OUT! i WANT TO KNOW EVERYTHING AND FOR HOW LONG ECT. ECT. I CAN'T GO ON, WONDERING. I DESERVE TO KNOW THE TRUTH!
HE ISN'T HELPING MY RECOVERY/OUR RECOVERY! HE THINKS I CAN JUST FORGET? HE ACTS SO SECRETIVE. HE'S ON FACEBOOK ALL THE TIME, FRIENDS WITH OVER 50% WOMEN, HE SAYS HE DON'T EVEN KNOW THEM, BUT HE PLAYS THESE STUPID GAMES ON FACEBOOK, THEY ARE FLIRTING WITH HIM, i FEEL, WHEN THE SEND HIM "PILLOW FIGHTS", SNOWBALLS, ECT. AND SOME GAMES HE IS ON HAVE NAUGHTY PHOTOS OF WOMEN AND SOME OF THE "FRIENDS" HE HAS ON HIS PROFILE, ARE ALITTLE FLAUNTY! HELP! HE THINKS I'M BEING SO UNREASONABLE.
HE KNOWS I'VE CHECKED UP ON HIS FACEBOOK, HE WAS MAD. NOW, I CAN SEE THAT ONE CAN HIDE THINGS ON THERE. I'M SURE HE IS.
HE WONDERS WHY WE AREN'T HAVING SEX? THE OTHER DAY, I ASKED HIM TO PICK UP HIS GLASS FROM LIVING ROOM, HE STATED, "I'M NOT A ****ING HOUSEWIFE!". MY MOUTH DROPPED. I FEEL SO SO DISREGUARDED. AND SEX? WELL, IF i'M JUST SOMEONE'S MAID, I SURE DON'T WANNA BE HIS ***** TOO! I'M SO DISCUSTED. SHOULDN'T HE TELL ME WHAT HAPPENED BETWEEN THESE OTHER WOMEN? I DON'T TRUST HIM AND HE KNOWS IT, YET, HE ISN'T HELPING THE HEALING!
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Re: H. admits, but won't tell me .....
