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Old 08-27-2013, 08:34 PM   #1 (permalink)
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So I am at my son's place and who comes waltzing in after me not seeing her for over 18 months but my ex-wife. She comes in acting civil but feeling entitled (boy you guys are right on this site!). She waltzes in entitled as can be - like nothing happened. then she is civil - then she starts by saying how happy she is, so I said lets get a divorce then....then she says fine but cannot afford $500 lol, excuses. then she goes on to say that her relationship with her AP is none of my business and that our relationship was a dead end for years, then when I mentioned my friend saw her and her ap... she flipped out and said that's creepy and that's why she wanted out for years.
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For a measley $500 file the papers and pay the bill yourself. Stop waiting for her to do it.
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If you can dump a cheater for $500, you should give somebody a tip three times that amount.
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Why haven't you filed yet?

Geez, get rid of her already
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If I had a crusty, pus filled growth on my a$$, I think I would pay the $500 to get it cut off. Wouldn't you?
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She doesn't have $500? Sounds like she's doing great. Rotflmao
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Post the OM up on cheaterville.com and suggest that they should find 500 to get rid of you,
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If I had a crusty, pus filled growth on my a$$, I think I would pay the $500 to get it cut off. Wouldn't you?
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So I am at my son's place and who comes waltzing in after me not seeing her for over 18 months but my ex-wife. She comes in acting civil but feeling entitled (boy you guys are right on this site!). She waltzes in entitled as can be - like nothing happened. then she is civil - then she starts by saying how happy she is, so I said lets get a divorce then....then she says fine but cannot afford $500 lol, excuses. then she goes on to say that her relationship with her AP is none of my business and that our relationship was a dead end for years, then when I mentioned my friend saw her and her ap... she flipped out and said that's creepy and that's why she wanted out for years.
BT I love you but if my lying, cheating, entitled, narcissistic wife told me she was happy but too broke I would have walked out the door to the nearest ATM, gotten $500.00 and went right back to the kids place.

Then I would have flashed the $500.00 and said this is the first and last time I will ever spend money on a wh@re but it will be worth it.

I would have hugged my kid and then sat down as if she wasn't event there.

You do realize just how nuts in the head she is right?

Please do not let her set you back.

Divorce her!

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BT I love you but if my lying, cheating, entitled, narcissistic wife told me she was happy but too broke I would have walked out the door to the nearest ATM, gotten $500.00 and went right back to the kids place.

Then I would have flashed the $500.00 and said this is the first and last time I will ever spend money on a wh@re but it will be worth it.

I would have hugged my kid and then sat down as if she wasn't event there.

You do realize just how nuts in the head she is right?

Please do not let her set you back.

Divorce her!

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BT show your son you are not to be effed with and to be respected I know they do but put a dagger in this and MOVE ON!
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So she walks in and starts spewing about how happy she is and how her relationship with her AP is none of "anyone's business".
That ``no one has a right to talk about it``.......I stated ``I will talk about whatever I want.`` She said `that`s why we are not in a relationship anymore``. Boy she is really on a power trip. Then she really goes on to say `No one has the right to talk about the nature of my relationship with my AP`--- then when I mention my friends saw her at a place - she said `that`s creepy`- I said `creepy like having an affair behind your husband`s back..
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So she walks in and starts spewing about how happy she is and how her relationship with her AP is none of "anyone's business".
That ``no one has a right to talk about it``.......I stated ``I will talk about whatever I want.`` She said `that`s why we are not in a relationship anymore``. Boy she is really on a power trip. Then she really goes on to say `No one has the right to talk about the nature of my relationship with my AP`--- then when I mention my friends saw her at a place - she said `that`s creepy`- I said `creepy like having an affair behind your husband`s back..
Step away from the drama and pony up the dough for the divorce. It's the greatest bargain you will ever see.

Stop engaging her, stop trying to get the last word in, etc. it means nothing. She means nothing. So cares who saw her with whom? Let it go. Move on with your life and focus your energy on positive things.
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BT

I know you have honored your vows.

But I truly look forward to you replacing her.

Hopefully with a woman 5-10 years younger than her.

The look on her face will be priceless.

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Can you explain what the reason is you have not filed for divorce? Not the excuse about her failure to come up with $500.

Are you going to stay with the status quo forever, or do you have a plan for changing things?
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So she walks in and starts spewing about how happy she is and how her relationship with her AP is none of "anyone's business".
That ``no one has a right to talk about it``.......I stated ``I will talk about whatever I want.`` She said `that`s why we are not in a relationship anymore``. Boy she is really on a power trip. Then she really goes on to say `No one has the right to talk about the nature of my relationship with my AP`--- then when I mention my friends saw her at a place - she said `that`s creepy`- I said `creepy like having an affair behind your husband`s back..
You really don't want to divorce her, do you Dawg? I've got news for you my man; she's moved on. How many ways does she have to tell you there ain't no going back, youre history, it's over, she's with the other guy cause she wants to be. She's not on a power trip. She just doesn't give a rats azz how you feel. (although she probably finds it entertaining to watch you go around chasing you're tail after she pushes the right buttons) Spend the $500 Dawg and put this thing out of its misery.
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