03-01-2010, 08:10 PM
Join Date: Mar 2010
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My husband doesn't know that I have caught him texting a female coworker at night and on weekends. So far, she has been the primary initiator, texting late at night, then he responds the next day on his way to work. But he has been hiding this from me by deleting her messages and lying about who is texting him. I have seen his replies to her. Some are innocent, some could be considered flirting. If it was completely innocent, though, there would be nothing to hide, right? I don't know if anything has happened beyond texting yet, but I have told my husband that I am suspicious of his recent behavior-on & off cold shoulder, working late, etc. (did not mention the texts at all).
What's the best way to curb these inappropriate texts without spouting out what I know? If they know it's the text messages arousing suspicions, then they will find another way to communicate that I can't monitor.
Last edited by RoaringMB; 03-01-2010 at 08:29 PM.