Re: Cheating wife (caught)
I know exactly where your at!! I ignored the little indicators of my suspisions, 'Not us!' and learned just a few weeks ago of my wife's affairs. I wasn't sleeping more than 4 hours at a time. And when it was all 100% clear I left to visit my dying father. I used a key logger to hack into her email and sent emails to her and some of her lovers. I had preparred myself for a seperation or divorce.
Now to be fair I had an urge to crossdress years ago, that she discovered. Although I was always faithful that was hard on her. I have since stopped that but on it's heels came ED. Sex became less and less. Male pride about this, I sure let her think I wanted a guy more than her. Just when I finally went for a viagra prescription, most embarressing, I learned of her cheating.
She she and I are still together but, I have no idea of where we are going. So far I have no assurances for her of fidility, at lest none that matter.