Re: Inappropriate texting?
You mention a concern for your children if you were to get a divorce. You fear that he will be a negative influence during visitation. I think you will be doing far more harm allowing your kids to grow up with him as the model for what a man/father is supposed to be. You also assume he is going to fight for custody, from what youve already stated, I highly doubt he would make the effort as a custody battle requires commitment and responsibility. You mention that he doesnt pay his child support, and you fear that you would have a hard time getting whats owed to you post divorce, a good attorney and a call to the franchise tax board resolves all those issues. Do not stay in this toxic relationship for the kids, it will do more harm than good.