sunflower

OMG so I think that I finally fell like a POS seriously last night in talking with the co. worker ex co worker being a idiot. talking about things and goofing off about pics he SENT ME ONE of his PRivates I feel really sick today about it all it went wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to far and I dont ever want to talk to him again I was so stupid last night and I am so ashamed of myself.

Initfortheduration

Were you drinking? Did you ask him to send it?

TNgirl232

Sunflower - I'm sorry I have no sympathy left at this point. You have denied all along that you have done anything bad in your relationship and continued to beat up your poor husband for his 1 mistake...while you have continued to carry on risky behavior behind his back on and off during the entire time you were raking him over the coals for his. I think its time you own up to him everything you have done to him and see what its like to be on the flipside of the censure. Are you brave enough to come clean?

sunflower

I cant come clean he will leave me. I CANT I am a fool and what I did was wrong. I am a idiot simple IDIOT. and I am NEVER talking to the guy AGAIN and I was drinking like a fool UGH I dont want sypothy I dont and I am suprsed I posted this I am a IDIOT I need to stop drinking and treat my husband better I think I just did worst. eww I am a LOSER

Initfortheduration

more cover ups, drinking, That isn't going to help your marriage.

sunflower

ya I KNOW I cant do this anymore NO MORE. I am so done with this

Initfortheduration

Did you erase the picture?

voivod

you wouldn't blame him, would you?
agreed
agreed
really? prove it.
how about you put that "i am NEVER" thing on the front of drinking. and treat your husband better? again, prove it.
good, i have none for you. not like my opinion matters.
pretty well summed it up sunflower.

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sunflower

YUP I sure did I wont toy with those games anymore thats for sure. And that pic as soon as I got it I was like wtf he really sent it OMG he really isnt playing this as a game anymore he wants something and I WONT

martino

"Stupid is as stupid does"

I hope to not see a worse confession next year at this time.

Initfortheduration

So then you did encourage him to send it.

Affaircare

Please do not read or reply to this post. It's my observation that these kinds of posts are for attention only as this kind of thing has been going on now literally for YEARS and nothing changes.

Please don't feed the trolls.

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Dancing Nancie

Good lord woman... You have been on here for quite some time "trying" to get over your husband kissing your friend. I would certainly hate to hear what you would be spewing if he had gotten a picture from a woman. You need to tell that poor man, and let him decide what to do.

sunflower

But it was all in fun I would joke with him all the time and if he tried then it would be shot down I dont know what he was thinking in sending me that if he knew it was all in fun? But maybe now it will get into my stupid fat head that I cant play games like this and what he did was really stupid and wash it all away;

TNgirl232

don't play naive sunflower - you've been told numerous times that this behavior was playing with fire and now you aren't taking responsibility for your own actions but blaming the other person for misinterpreting the fact that you were having virtual sex talk with him. I think you are a hypocrite and a very sad person to treat your husband this way after knowing the pain it can inflict