05-24-2010, 09:46 PM
Join Date: May 2010
| | Re: Husband cheated and has a baby....
I understand where you are coming from. Last year my boyfriend also got a girl pregnant. And yes I was/am pissed and disappointed in him. But I am also mad at her. This girl definitely had the baby on purpose and simply is a bad person. She wants to act like an angel and innocent like the "act" never happen. I understand that the baby is her but I the past still happened. I do not respect her simply because she does not respect me. She forces her presence and is the type of person who wants to make it known she is the baby's mother. We were at an event together, a month after she had the baby and she INSISTED she be there. And just so happen to bump into me in an area big enough for 100,000 people. I completely understand your not wanting contact with the women. But as a law student myself, GET A LAWYER, get visitation, and make sure you keep a log of EVERY interaction. I do not think its fair of you to keep the child away but know that drama can be avoided by making sure you do everything textbook (i.e. neutral drop off site, no additional money). Before you go any further make sure you are ready and up for this. And old feelings of anger and rage are not going to get in the way. Your relationship is the most important thing.